Why am I not attracted to masculine men? Why do I like more feminine attributes on a man?

What’s not hot is a guy who is lazy. What’s not hot is a guy who doesn’t know how to cook well. What’s not hot is toxic masculinity. Like this guy! And his friend, too:

Anyway, it’s good that you like metro-sexual guys. We need women who are attracted to all types so we’re not competing over the same small basket of guys😅🤪!!!

That’s Osamu Dazai. He could pass for a girl, right? But he’s all guy, hot, hot, hot😛😛😛! At least to girls in Japan.

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What’s hot is a guy who brings you tea when you’re sick (and makes sure it’s really hot, just the way you like it). What’s hot is a man who knows how to work with people, so he makes it in the working world. What’s hot is a man who gets down on the floor and plays with children and doesn’t disappear when one of them gets a poopy diaper, no, he changes it his own damn self😄. And then washes his hands.

Stay away from guys like this. Find the ones who are truly strong, not ones who peacock around. They’re the ones who are likely to wanna pee on you later🙄🤨. Which is the biggest reason why 40% of first marriages end in DIVORCE and why 90% of the time it’s the woman filing (when she’s college educated, that is. Overall it’s 70%.).

There’s a whole art thing in Asia about this. Here’s what’s considered a heart throb over there, devastatingly sexy😍😛!

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